Voices of Your Village

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How to Respond to Triggering Phrases Like, “I Hate You” with Rachel and Alyssa (Rebroadcast)

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Alyssa: [00:00:00] You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today we're bringing you a special rebroadcast of one of our most popular episodes. The village keeps coming back to this one, and for good reason. In this episode, Rachel and I dive into those moments when kids say things that feel rude, hurtful, or even shocking. We unpack why these behaviors often come from a place of dysregulation, what might be going on beneath the surface, and how to respond in a way that builds connection i...

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Helping Tweens Feel Secure in Their Changing Bodies with Dr. Hina Talib, MD

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Alyssa: [00:00:00] You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today we're diving into a conversation that so many parents are craving, but often don't know how to start. I got to sit down with Doctor Hina Talib to talk about body image and development in the pre-teen years. Those ages 9 to 12, when so much is changing inside and out. We explored how to navigate this stage with empathy, how to foster open communication with kids around their bodies, and how to create a home environment where...

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Holiday Meltdowns, Gift Disasters & When ‘Thank You’ Doesn’t Happen with Rachel and Alyssa

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Alyssa: [00:00:00] You're listening to Voices Of Your Village, and today we're getting into something that hits deep for so many of us, especially around the holidays. You know, when you plan something special like a magical outing, a thoughtful gift, and you're met with, is that it? Or what are we doing next? It can feel like a gut punch. In this episode, we're unpacking what's really going on when kids seem to crave more more stuff, more stimulation, more everything, and why it can be so trigge...

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Parenting Tweens & Teens: Boundaries, Repair, and Real Connection with Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart

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Alyssa: [00:00:00] You're listening to Voices Of Your Village, and today I'm joined by someone I deeply respect. Doctor Ann-Louise Lockhart, clinical psychologist and author of the brand new book Love the Teen You Have. In this episode, we dive into the often messy world of parenting tweens and teens. Doctor Lockhart and I explore how connection, not control, is the foundation for healthy, respectful relationships with our kids as they grow. We talk about how to navigate conflict, what it means t...

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Chaos, Connection and Accidental F-Bombs with Caitlin Murray of Big Time Adulting

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[00:00:00] Alyssa: You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today I'm joined by someone who brings humor, heart, and a whole lot of real talk to the parenting space. Caitlin Murray of Big Time Adulting is hanging out with us today. Caitlin's known for her brutally honest and hilarious take on motherhood. And in this episode, we get into what it actually looks like to treat our kids like the whole humans they are, while still navigating the reality that they don't have fully developed brain...

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Not Just a Phase: Getting to the Root of School Refusal, with Attachment Nerd Eli Harwood

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[00:00:00] Alyssa: You are listening to Voices Of Your Village, and today's episode is such a grounding one. I got to sit down with my dear friend, Eli Harwood, who you may know as @attachmentnerd over on Instagram, to dive into a topic that comes up so often, school refusal. If you've ever had a kid clinging to the doorframe or break down in tears before drop off, or you've wondered when to push and when to pause, this one's for you. Eli brings her therapist lens and lived experience to this co...

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Not Another Screen Time Lecture—A Real Conversation About Kids + Tech with The Gamer Educator, Ash Brandin

 

[00:00:00] Alyssa: You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today's episode is such a treat. I get to sit down with my friend, Ash Brandin, educator, researcher, author of the new book, Power On, to talk all things screen time, video games, and what it really means to raise emotionally regulated kids in a digital world.

[00:00:19] Ash brings so much nuance and compassion to this conversation. We go beyond the usual screen time debates and dig into what screens are doing for our kids, how we can shift power struggles into collaboration, and how regulation-- not restriction is the key. Ash is phenomenal, and I highly recommend following them over on Instagram at the Gamer Educato...

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How (and When) to Talk to Your Kids About Porn, with Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett

Before we dive in: This episode includes detailed discussions of sex, porn and a brief mention of sexual assault. Please take care while listening.

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[00:00:00] Alyssa: You are listening to Voices of Your Village, and today we get to talk about a topic that, honestly, it makes me feel so uncomfortable to even think about talking about with my kids. We get to dive in with Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett about how and when to talk to your kids about porn. Dr. Cara Natterson is a pediatr...

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Seed and Sew Village Q&A with Rachel and Alyssa

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[00:00:00] Alyssa: You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and this episode was such a blast. We posted in stories on Instagram @seed.and.sew asking for your questions for Rach and I, and just did a full just q and a, pulled some questions directly from you to dive into, to answer, and it was a blast, so we're for sure gonna do that again.

[00:00:23] Make sure you're following along @seed.and.sew, also, if you're not following on your podcast app that you tune into, make sure you hit follow....

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Setting the Stage for Shame-Free Puberty with Melissa Pintor Carnagey

Before we dive in: this episode includes a discussion of sexual assault. Please take care while listening.

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[00:00:00] Alyssa: You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today I got to hang out with my friend Melissa Pintor Carnagey. Melissa's newest book Growing Into You is so phenomenal. Melissa's a renowned sexuality educator, bestselling author, and leading national voice for sex positive education in youth and families.

[00:00:22] Her work has been featured in the Huffington Post Paren...

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